Board Thread:General Discussion/@comment-24296957-20141203043014/@comment-25555436-20141203192915

Alright...lovely thread.

From the reviews I've seen Sel do here, she does them right enough at the very least. She's, at the very least, an useful member. But I've also seen her fights with other people here. The cause...is a logic I used to follow in my early Youtube days.

It works like this: "I'm right and always right, and I know I'm always right, unless I know I'm wrong". Esentially, she will always assume she is the one right in the argument and won't stop until the rest agrees or shuts the F up. She even said it herself once, how she only forgave a little user when he/she said in nice, well written words how s/he was wrong and said bad things and how Sel was right. I never saw their exact argument, nor the context, so I don't know if she was right.

However, I do know I did ask her "But what if you know you're wrong?". Sel never answered that question. Take that as you will.

I've also seen some of her excuses. Freudian Excuses by the way. Parental Neglect, abuse, and things related to those 2. Now, I don't know her in RL so I don't know if it's true. However, I do know....that we don't give a shit.

One thing one must always know in life is, when you're working, people will barely care about your own personal problems, they will only care that you swallow it up, fake a smile, and do your work right. If people go to a pizza restaurant, it's not to listen to the chef talk about how his girlfriend leaved him, how he's in debt with the mafia, how he's bankrupt, no no no. The go to eat pizza, that's all. They may show simpathy, but they go just to eat pizza.

And if those personal problems Sel has are the reason she often acts that way...then there's a problem. Especially if it turns out that Sel is/was who I think she is. I recommend that she is demoted to just a reviewer until she learns to set her personal life and her responsibilities in this wikia in different sides. That way, she can still be useful to the community and be unable to abuse power. And also, she'll have less responsibilities, less stress, and can calm down. Everybody wins.