Thread:Winter Edition/@comment-30315955-20150526130849/@comment-24296957-20150526134839

Look, Orlando...there's a couple things I need to say here. Not as an Admin of this site to a user, but as a user-to-user kind of thing.

It's not a big deal, don't make it out to be. I understand you're young - you still have a lot to learn. But there are people in this world that aren't going to like you. I'm sure you have seen that outside of our site. And you can try to get them to like you all they want, but some people won't bend or acknowledge your actions. The American government is a good example - Uncle Ben will bend you over backwards and ignore your voice no matter how loud you scream.

This is one of those cases.

See, the reason Flora doesn't like you is that you keep trying to get her to like you. At this point, you're a nuisance to her - one she doesn't want to keep around. But despite your efforts, they fall on deaf ears. She'll do what she wants, how she wants, when she wants. And she's not going to bend to your actions.

There are plenty of lessons in this life left for you to uncover, Orlando. Let me help you with one of those - If someone doesn't want you, then that's fine. You stop clinging to them, let go, and move on. It's very simple. All you have to do is stop talking to her. I know it might be hard, and I admire your desire to want to be peaceable and sociable with her - but she wants nothing to do with you, plain and simple. If you were mature - like you boast to be - you'll respect those wishes and be on  your merry way.

TL;DR stop trying to reach out to her. She doesn't want it anymore.

And in all honesty, no one wants to see a sop story or a, 'Poor, poor pitiful me. Let me show you how much I want to be here with just words.' If what you say is true, Orlando, you'll heed my words, wisen up, and continue on.

If you mess with the bull, you get the horns. This is an international site - there are real people behind these usernames. Out there is a different story. In here? We play hardball. Be prepared to get slammed a few times before you learn how to play.