User blog comment:Sumiyo/OC Issues./@comment-10380701-20131112023133

I've had similar issues with my best friend before. Generally, the best course of action is to wait it out until the issue dies down.

A major aspect of creating an OC I've learned is to not be too attached. The more you're attached, the more likely you'll have issues with him/her way down the line. Especially if he/she is a shared character.