User blog comment:DragonBossGala/Ive been removed from my position/@comment-24087318-20140225192420

I think this needs to be cleared up a little.

I have repeatedly stated that one of the bigger reasons I stepped down nearly a month ago was because of how poorly I was treated by one of my peers, and how the others made no real move to say it was even a little uncalled for.

I made no such demands to have anybody removed from their position just so I can return. I have only stated that I would not return to the Fanon in any capasity so long as certain people were still in Staff positions. Everyone was allowed to take from that as they'd like, wether it meant they'd want to get rid of the other for me, or wether the other way around would be preffered. Whichever would be seen as the better move for the Community would be the one I would back.

In addition, over the course of a few discussions, I was able to speak with the Administrators who were present during the offence, they explained why they acted how they did, and a mutual understanding was met. I hold no grudge against these two people, for they earnestly said they did not mean for me to be hurt that badly, nor even offended at all.

Only one of them, and the one who uttered the offences to begin with, did not wish to come to an understanding. They heard me speak honestly about how I felt, and how what they said hurt me deeply. They then proceeded to say that they frankly didn't care. They meant every word and they were glad I was upset.

This behavior, in any form, is completely uncalled for and malicious.

I keep seeing the word "demands" being thrown around a lot, yet I havn't made a single one.

I've voiced, repeatedly, that certain words and actions were upsetting me. And I know this isn't a one-way street, but when someone comes to somebody else, and says what upset them, and has done actions that make clear they were very hurt over it, it's probably the kinder action to try to say sorry, in any form. Or come to some sort of agreement. That's what talking things out is about. That's all I've ever wanted. To talk about what upset me, to talk about what I do that upsets others, and get everything cleared up so maybe I can feel comfortable enough to come back.

There were no demands. I never once said "This happens, or else That." in any version. The closest I have ever said, is again, voicing that I would not return to the Fanon so long as this wound remains opened.

Anyways. Everything aside, this blog post is quite controvercial in nature, and I feel that it in itself, and this reply, covers everything that needs to be said concerning both sides of the issue.

As such, I'm locking it from receiving further comments before it gets out of hand. People have seen both sides, they can draw their own conclusions. This doesn't need to escalate to a back and forth.